Wednesday, April 28, 2010

解铃还需系铃人,心病还需心药医。

2010年4月28日 水曜日 晴


心里有一个结,就是我一个月多以来我一直在等一句诚心的道歉。但是我很失望,早前言语上刺伤了我的一个朋友还能当作若无其事的在我面前嬉皮笑脸,换作是你,看到了你觉得气不气?

那件事其实不完全是我的错,我的出发点只是想让大家能在上FB时查看自己的成绩。然而不领情也就算了,还被她第一个shoot我“炫耀”,说什么不想知道自己的成绩的无理取闹的话。拜托,不想知道自己的成绩untag自己名字就可以了,成绩单上又没有注明名字,只有Matric号码,我又没去记每个人什么号码,才安心upload去FB的,鬼才知道你拿什么成绩呢。

那时我竟然会觉得是自己语气太重反过来低头向她道歉,我突然觉得自己很犯贱,因为我的道歉没有得到任何原谅的回复,就连一个下台阶都不给我,还被我知道她在其他人背后说我怎样怎样。做男人做到我那么没面子,我是应该生气、伤心还是无奈?说我炫耀的那个人呢,一句道歉都从来没有向我说过。她自己的面子重要,我的面子就一文不值?

可能有人会认为我很小气,做男人就应该gentleman一点让一让女人。但这不是让不让的问题,而是原则问题。在巴士上看到孕妇、老人,我会让一个位子给她坐。但错的人应该道歉是天公地道。如果你言语上冲撞了一个人,都不会觉得内疚甚至不会道歉,那么你想让那个人以什么态度来对你?或者以理性的角度来看,如果一个女人犯罪了,她投诉控告她的人不gentleman,请问她可以被无罪释放吗?

没错,我确实很感激以前她一直以来对我的关心。但是仅仅是感激,我还是无法认同她的性格。我都还没搞清楚她为何凡事都对我有意见呢,如果是开玩笑的没关系,但是很明显就是在shoot我,也不是第一次shoot我了。她生气?那我呢?是不是应该比她更加生气才正常?

我没做任何决定,我只是让她自己做出选择,对自己的决定负责。不过那不是很好吗?最终让她露出本来的面目,就算我帮过她,她还是会以心情定善恶,说出来了,不是代表我帮了她就要她报恩。只是她连情面都不念,一生气就幼稚到delete掉关于我的FB档案,去add回她两次,竟然都拒绝,丝毫不念往日恩情,最后还竟然能把责任全部推往FB。

我可不会做这种幼稚的行为,要不然我跟她就没分别了。FB只是让大家互相交流的平台,也是让大家更了解彼此的平台。是这个平台让我们知道彼此本来的性格。让她忍了那么久可不好意思,其实我早猜到她对我有所不满,只是我想听这些话由她口中说出来,证明我感觉到的是对的。

真不想把话给说白:想想当初你要我帮忙时我曾说过一句不能?二话不说我就帮了。载你去火车站都不知几多遍了,都没向你讨过汽油钱甚至一句谢谢;有次不舒服还去载你都没说过一句怨言,因为我觉得你是值得我这么做的朋友;你叫我帮你打包晚餐,虽然只是举手之劳的顺便,但是有时不想出去外面打包晚餐,我可以选择拒绝的,但最后还是帮你了。算了,只能算我犯贱。看来是我看错人了,自己做笨蛋算了。反正这也是大学生涯的最后一次被人当笨蛋,我靠感觉判断人却总是时常看错人,也是时候去换一副眼镜了,最好是能一眼就看得出别人性格的眼镜。

还说什么莫名其妙的话,感激我让让她爆发所有的不满,也解决了她的家庭纠纷。你家庭纠纷跟我有什么关系?我也没那么空闲去管你这种大小姐的事情。是养尊处优的大脾气小姐。

天知道你有多烦恼,我也是很烦恼啊。可有人关心过我?一直都在烦着金钱的问题,还要我烦这种问题。我也是普通人,EQ再怎么高也会有控制不住的时刻。尤其是想起你每次都以不屑的口气说算我对、我赢,心情更不好。但是我知道自己的烦恼要自己解决,没人会帮到我。我希望她冷静下来以后再想想我说的话,不要再被愤怒的情绪控制,变得不讲道理。

晚上在cafe又果真的是传说中的冤家路窄,平时没遇到,偏偏在这个时候遇到。真是相对无言,想上前去打招呼,但想起她那种不会道歉的性格,心中又不知为何不想上前去跟她对话。这可能是最后一次遇到了,对她而言可算是件好事,因为以后都不用再遇到我像这种人所谓不尊重人、不顾虑别人感受的人了。

相见不如怀念...

Monday, April 26, 2010

N97 mini的详细凤凰刷机教程!

2010年4月25日 日曜日 晴


前些日子入手二手的水货黑色N97 mini,手痒痒的去update Nokia firmware后突然没有了中文显示。这才恍然大悟升级前又忘了用NSS修改手机里面地区code代码。于是抱着破釜沉舟的心态用用凤凰刷机2009硬刷成亚太版RM-555 Malaysia Cherry Black的固件,结果真的成功刷成支持中文显示的亚太版Malaysia机。

在此感谢 ylgnet 在 http://bbs.dospy.com/thread-4043199-1-8.html 发的凤凰刷机教程!部分安装文章都来源于 ylgnet 发表的N97一站式!超详细!刷机教程!7月27日更新凤凰直下固件方法。感谢塞班“诺基亚N97/N97i/N97 mini论坛”刷机区提供的各种凤凰资料参考。


下面是在Windows 7上安装凤凰刷机2009刷N97 mini的操作教程:

我的N97 mini的机器型号简称RM-555,所以先去狗狗搜索下载N97mini的亚太版RM-555 APAC官方简体中文刷机固件包。之后再下载凤凰刷机2009(Phoenix_2009_34_6_39750_Vision_Flashing_Forum)。最后去Nokia官方网站下载最新的NSU(Nokia Software Updater)。因为最新版的NSU能解决Flashing时出现的“unable to detect usb cable”的问题。

首先,去官方网站查询你的N97 mini的code,或你想刷的code,是否有你想刷的版本。比如我想刷0585416: RM-555_APAC_MALAYSIA CB 马来西亚的V11,就去官网查询,结果显示最新版本是V11,你就可以开始去下载相应的固件包了。


FAQ:

可以用NSU升级吗?
答:如果你确定你的机器本身就是马来西亚、新加坡机或香港的code等有中文的机器,N97 mini有新版本时可以不改code直接用NSU升级!不会造成升级后无法显示中文的问题!

不一样的RM-5XX的可以刷成RM-555的系统吗?
答:本人没有实际测试跨RM刷机,但是有朋友刷机成功,前提条件是你手机的系统是V10,把它刷成RM505的V11,不然很大可能会刷成砖块。

刷机前的准备工作:

1。首先确认你的电脑有没有安装PC套件或OVI!如果有,强烈建议你从装系统!

2。如果电脑装有凤凰旧的版本,也强烈建议你将凤凰完全删除干净(如果有安装凤凰,请删除干净)。

3。安装好凤凰刷机2009和N97 mini的固件包。

4。不要改动凤凰2009的安装目录,默认的就可以了,千万不能改动!(凤凰2009安装完后!再安装固件刷机包)。

5。确保你的电脑工作环境的电源稳定,确保你手机的电池有足够的电。

完成了以上的准备,就可以动手来安装凤凰了!(支持Windows 7的凤凰2009.34.6.39750的安装更为简化,没有DOS窗口!)

确保你的电脑杀毒软件退出,确保你的防火墙关闭,如果中途有出现防火墙提示,请解除阻止!放行!

在安装过程中会提示该驱动与系统不兼容,请选择仍继续安装!



1。安装凤凰

不要改动凤凰2009的安装目录,默认的就可以了,千万不能改动!(双击凤凰2009安装程序(VISTA 和 WIN7下请以右键菜单里的以管理员身份运行)。

按任意键继续,出现下图点:“yes”。

出现下图点击“Next”。

出现下图点第一个选项,也就是同意,然后点“Next”。

点“Next”。

出现下图点“Install”。

开始安装...

点“Finish"。

可以关掉窗口了...


2。安装完后 就可以安装固件刷机包了(记住,VISTA和WIN7的用户同样先以管理员身份运行!)

安装固件刷机包很简单!,点“Next”!然后一直Next下去,安装完后再点“Finish”退出。

注:成功安装的RM-555固件包,位置会在C:\Program Files\Common Files\Nokia\DataPackage文件夹里。


下面开始激动人心的刷机!

注意:有所得必有所失!港行刷亚太版本的系统,能得到FM发射,也能用,但是会失去关闭拍照声音,港行的系统,关掉警告音后拍照是没咔嚓声的!

连接电脑前,请将联系人和资料备份,使用机器系统里的那个功能,备份到TF储存卡上,然后拔出储存卡,记住,一定要将储存卡拿走,SIM卡必须要在手机里!

接下来,把USB线连接上手机和电脑!选择以PC套件模式连接。

1.双击桌面凤凰的图标!

然后选择"File"→"Manage Connections"。

然后点击"NEW"。

然后如图所示,将USB打上勾,再点击下一步。

当出现“Finished scanning“后再点击下一步。

点击完成。

点击"Apply"。

点击"Close"。

选择"File"→"Scan Product"。

这时候,凤凰开始识别出手机!

选择"Flashing"→"Firmware Update"。

点击"..."可选择想刷的code。

出现如下图窗口。去除勾选即可选择想刷的code,选择完毕点击"OK"即可。

点击"Refurbish"开始刷机。




刷机中,千万不要拔开数据线,或断电,或重启电脑,或砸手机,不能看A片B片和动画片还有搞笑短片!最好是把N97 mini放在一旁不要去动!

刷机过程中,手机会自动重启和断开连接又重新连接PC,你不用鸟它!

刷机成功后如下图:

点击确定,关掉凤凰,拔出USB线,OK,N97 mini刷好了!^^


PS:其实用NSS更改相应的code,然后用NSU升级firmware是最简单的方法,可以避免水货N97 mini的code不一样升级后造成的突然没有了中文显示的后果。但是万一忘了修改code而去升级,结果没有了中文显示,可以采用以上的刷机方法。:)

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Greedy people will lose more

2010年4月23日 金曜日 晴


Yesterday at night about 8:30pm o'clock, I received a sms from Maxis and found out my mobile phone hotlink prepaid line was barred. Today I immediately went to Maxis Exclusive Partner (MEP) (P&D Mobile Centre Sdn Bhd) at Plaza Metro Kajang asked for a details why my 012 prepaid line being terminated suddenly. The staff at there checked my account and found that my line service provider have been switched to Celcom, it shocked me. After went to Celcom Customer Service Department at Sungai Chua, there was somebody told me I have subscribed to Celcom postpaid plan.

Unfortunately, I told him my problem as I am a victim that being cheated by Celcom chinese dealer near the Mid Valley KTM komuter station when going back from MCTF’10 Career Fair in Mid Valley Exhibition Centre. The dealer only told me Celcom is launching promotion and deliver free simpack to user, he did not mention anything to me and just asked me to fill in my name, mother’s name (I filled fake of my mother’s name), I/C no. & current hand phone no. only, after that requested my I/C to be photocopied. He did not tell me that the form I was filling is the form to change my service provider from Hotlink to Celcom. He just keep on saying: “ALL ARE FREE” and Celcom staff will call me after 2-3 days (Although I were wondering why Celcom staff will call me, probably it is a kind of marketing survey). It was my fault also since I easily believe him and thought it was just a kind of survey form and did not ask for details.

The Celcom staff at Sungai Chua said I have to clear my registration fees etc. for about RM70~80 before I am able to switch my service provider back to Hotlink prepaid. I was disappointed with the tactics Celcom’s dealer used, since the "Free+Promotion" slogan they were using just like fooling consumers with FREE slogan, especially a poor student like me easily attracted by the FREE things. With blank mind I went back to MEP in Plaza Metro Kajang to ask for more details the procedure to change back my line service to Hotlink prepaid.

After applied for changed my plan to Hotlink prepaid, the Hotlink staff said I will loss all my 012 prepaid credit since I have changed to Celcom so my account’s credit will automatically disappear. It pissed me off since I have already lost all my hand phone credit, but now I still have to pay for RM70~80 to Celcom even I did not use Celcom service to make any call or sms. After that I walked to another Celcom Customer Service Department at Plaza Metro Kajang LG Floor asked for the details of my Celcom account. The staff had helped me activated the Celcom line. He told me to wait for few days, then Celcom will send me a sms, I have to wait for another week, then only my line will be released and able to change back to Hotlink prepaid.

After went back to my room, I email NCCC and Celcom careline to make a complaint about my situation. I requested Celcom to check my account (01X-XXX XXXX) for details, my previous plan was Hotlink prepaid that subscribed to Hotlink Youth Club and got credit due date until 02/04/2013. Nobody will so stupid to change his plan to Celcom postpaid and switch his plan back to original Hotlink prepaid within 1 day unless he realized that he was fooled by people.

I AM ABSOLUTELY DISAPPOINTED OF THE CHEATING TACTIC OF CELCOM'S DEALER USED, AS THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME THAT I WAS CHEATED BY CELCOM’S DEALER THAT SWITCHED MY PLAN WITHOUT MY UNDERSTANDING. AS A RESULT, I LOST ALL MY PREPAID CREDIT WITHOUT MY ACKNOWLEDGEMENT!!! THIS IS EXTREMELY PISSED ME OFF!!! I WILL NOT SHIFT FROM MAXIS LINE SINCE I HAVE BEEN USING THIS LINE FOR MORE THAN 7 YEARS. IF CELCOM THINK MY LOSS WAS NOTHING, NOTHING FOR THEM, JUST FORGET AND IGNORE MY WORDS. I STRONGLY BELIEVE I COULD INFLUENT OTHERS FROM WHAT I HAVE BEEN EXPERIENCED IN THIS WAY. I HAVE NO IDEA HOW YOUR DEALER IS WORKING, THE CHARACTERISTIC OF THEM REALLY DISQUALIFIED AS A SALES PERSON. HOWEVER I DO BELIEVE FOOLING CONSUMER TO ACHIEVE THEIR GOALS ARE THE MOST LOUSY WAY IN EVERY COMPANY, ORGANIZATION. MOST OF THE CONSUMERS NOWADAYS HAVE THEIR RIGHT TO COMPLAINT OR ISSUE THEIR CONDITION TO TTPM.

Hence, I look forward for NCCC and Celcom reply and a resolution to my problem should be carried out within seven (7) days before seeking help from a consumer protection agency or the Business Bureau. I am expecting everything be done without going to Celcom Customer Service Department again for a second time> Because I am busy preparing my final exam and my final year project's presentation.

Lesson learned: No free meal in this world or you will pay more about it. Greedy people will lose more.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

元代 元好问 词

2010年4月10日 土曜日 阴


相思无用
唯别而已
别期若有定
千般煎熬又何如
莫道黯然销魂
何处柳暗花明